Tuesday, April 13, 2010

having babies like a chicken pooping out eggs...


simone de beauvoir was kinda of a super bitch (if i were still dwelling on some other topic, i bet i know who would have been a great buddy for her).
<-- just look at that scornfulness! she asserted in her text "le deuxième sexe" that women who pooped out kids all the time were basically like chickens pooping out eggs. don't get me wrong, i think kids are neat. i even watch someone else's as a part-time job (forgive me if i am repeating myself). i have nieces and nephews. we have friends who have kids. i just don't feel that need to have a kid, though.
i am disheartened by the overpopulation of our earth as well as the fact that countless children are born into families/situations where no one wants them. most days i feel like we are on a sinking ship and that no one seems to give a damn about our collective future anyway, so what's the point of procreating only to have a kid who's going to grow up knowing possible famine, despair, and severe poverty. i realize that this occurs constantly in our current world, but this is yet another reason that i feel that issues such as abstinence-only education and limitation of birth control (making more expensive, i.e. less readily available to those who might really need and want it) are big mistakes in industrialized nations (specifically the u.s.).
i'm by no means attacking anyone who wants to have a child. i just feel that our society is so procreation-oriented that i am bogged down by the constant questions from family, friends, and the occasional stranger, who feel that it is their duty (or perhaps right?) to pry into my sex life to see when my man and i plan on pooping out kids. i used to be able to use school as an excuse, but it seems as though i am going to have to start telling folks straight up that i don't feel the need/desire to shoot out any spawn of my own.

3 comments:

  1. i was nearly 30 before i had a child, for many of the same reasons you have stated. you can imagine how many times i was asked, "so when are you going to have a baby?" it was the time of cabbage patch kids, so i started telling specific relatives if they wanted grandchildren so bad why not go buy a cabbage patch doll! it shut them up quickly.

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  2. You'd be amazed at how similar pushing a big poop out and pushing a kid out are!! Hee! Hee!

    I think that you could tell strangers that you had a kid at one time, but decided to sell it so that you could get a butt lift!

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  3. I agree. I'm feeling the pressures of conventional and traditional "do gooders" who feel it is their duty to tell me that my "clock is ticking" and that I better get on it. Apparently, woman are good for "pooping" out babies and men are good for . . . still trying to figure that one out. lol

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